The Truth About Being “Funny” on Stage
When people ask me for tips for public speaking, especially around humour, they often expect me to hand over a list of jokes to memorise.
But here’s the truth:
Big laughs rarely come from jokes.
If you’ve seen me live – whether as a magician, keynote speaker, or awards show host – you’ll know comedy is a huge part of what I do (or at least… I hope it is!).
But I don’t tell “jokes.”
I find the funny in everyday moments.
And one of the simplest, most reliable ways to get a room laughing is to create comedy from tension.
Why Tension Creates Laughter
Every audience has moments where you can feel the air tighten:
A pause.
A build-up.
A silence where people hold their breath.
They’re waiting for a release.
If you give them even the smallest moment of lightness or humour at just the right time, it gets a huge reaction.
Not because the line is genius – but because it lets them exhale.
Humour creates connection through relief.
How to Make Presentations, Pitches, or Speeches Funnier
1️⃣ Don’t Force Jokes
You’re not auditioning for a stand-up special.
If it doesn’t fit naturally into your story, skip it.
2️⃣ Look for Natural Tension Points
Notice where people might feel nervous, unsure, or curious – then use a light comment to ease the moment.
3️⃣ Add Subtle, Well-Timed Lines
Humour doesn’t have to be loud or clever. A small, honest observation often lands better than a rehearsed punchline.
This approach works because it mirrors real conversation – it’s about timing, not scripts.
How It Works in Practice
Create a Bit of Tension
Say something bold, surprising, or deliberately serious.
Sit in the Silence
Don’t rush.
Let the room lean in.
This moment is gold.
Drop the Unexpected Line
Something short, light, and true – not a “joke,” just a release.
Often, it lands bigger than any scripted punchline.
Why Humour Works
Adding humour to your presentation doesn’t just get laughs – it builds trust and relatability.
When the audience laughs with you, they relax. They listen more closely. They remember you more vividly.
That’s why learning to use humour is one of the most effective tips for public speaking – it transforms tension into connection.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve got a specific moment in your talk where you think a touch of humour might help, drop it in the comments or get in touch.
Sometimes all it takes is one well-timed line to turn “polite interest” into genuine engagement.
-Ben Hanlin
Magician. Keynote Speaker. Awards Show Host.
Helping you connect, engage, and be remembered.